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Sharing Tips from A Recognized Dating Coach...Could be Worth Keeping Handy Before Winging It...

on Fri, 01/14/2022 - 16:20

From an email from Wendy Newman, Dating Coach...(I am not an affiliate but hope more get help in this important area of life.) Also check out what Lisa Garr does and many others on this blog I've had a chance to listen to over the last decade.

See a post I wrote early on called "Check List for Chicks and Guys" too..and 'easier said than done' but keep fine tuning your safety, boundaries, support and accountablity team and see what's on rainn.com and on DV sites (but know that many 'experts' cannot speak to many key issues, so see what LundyBancroft.com and others say Before Getting in

In response to the saying "Don't raise your daughter to look for a Knight, Raise her to use the sword herself..."

on Mon, 08/19/2019 - 18:52

I like to encourage everyone to 'use words to help put down the swords of despair, anger, harm and misery....' So definitely want to rear people of all genders to 'use words (which may come in the form of silence, journaling, sharing anonymously, online or off (with clarity and safety about whose who for real and of course many ways to talk 'in person' with the right setting and supervision, support and 'script' for understanding what one can express legally and reasonably without repercussions.)....

Basically the last bastion of freedom is being 'picked to the bone', often with others doing

Safe & Together Institute, formerly David Mandel and Associates, offering Safe and Together E-Learning Classes, blogs and trainings!

on Mon, 03/20/2017 - 16:41

Heralding a New Level of Awareness of What Needs Fixing in the  Family and Child Social Services Systems, David Mandel and Associates--now Safe and Together Institute  (www.endingviolence.com) has made a mark not only through decades of experience but with important reform measures to help Women and Victims of Abuse Stay Safe and Together with their Children. See the sites also of LundyBancroft.com, BarryGoldstein.net and BMCC.org

Actually that is about the Children staying Safe and Together with Their Mothers (for the most part) or primary caregiver.

Why So Many Smart People Lock Doors Instead of Helping People O-U-T of Bad Situations and Abuse, Even Moms with Kids....A Big Worry Few Wonder About as though No Clue That's Happening to 60K Moms Every Year!

on Tue, 12/08/2015 - 13:39

Sadly I learned of one of the rare cases of a mother having the life of the father of their child ended on a Forensic Files show on TV. The 38-year-old was desribed at an excellent pediatrician and one of the possible motivations was for the mother to have sole custody as well as a $500 thousand life insurance policy (which she was using $200 thousand for to pay off two hit men.) Thankfully the forensic information linking the two hit men to the scene was available ( a sneaker print on tile, some blood and hair samples on a sweat shirt that was left in a hotel room along with the sneakers.

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